Finding the right partner is usually hard. Today’s relationships can be fun and exciting as you share your day and your lives. But sometimes it’s the times that you’re just sitting and relaxing quietly, without entertaining each other, that really matter.
For a relationship to be healthy and long lasting, each partner must have respect for the other. They must respect each other’s opinions, their time, their work, their ideas, and their thoughts. So you’ve just gotten into a new relationship and you hope that it will last but you’re still looking for signs that would guarantee this. If he can’t say these things in the first month of the relationship, he’s not worth it.
1. “I really enjoy spending time with you”
It is obvious that if he loves you, then he definitely enjoys your company. You have been together on several dates and he likes you. However, if he does not confess it but assumes that you already know, then he’s not worth the relationship. The right partner would always express how he feels about you.
2. “I want us to…”
If he never uses this phrase in the relationship then you have no future with him. This phrase will always guarantee you a healthy relationship because your partner will always involve you in anything they do. This is a clear indication that they have plans for the future.
3. “Tell me about your life goals”
If he asks you about your objectives in life, this means he’s totally interested to be with you in the future. He wants to see you achieve your dreams and wants to connect his dreams with yours. Of course, it is awkward to expect such a question on the first date, but he can ask within the first month of dating.