No body deserves to remain stuck in an abusive relationship!
My sister better think otherwise before something nasty happens.
When that man seems not ready to change his abusive habits, don’t kill yourself with stress.
Staying glued in an abusive relationship will only kill your self-esteem and self-worth.
Obviously, breaking up with this man ad hoc does not work.
Do not despair. It might be rough for a while but you can get rid of him.
Here are some tested strategies you can apply to smoothly dump him.
Girl, you just need a plan, a strategy:
- Do not break up with him in the heat of the moment.
- Collect your belongings from his house. Each time you go over, take a few of your things home with you so that when you do say it’s over, you will not need further contact with him.
- Buy a new phone line and install it as soon as you dump his insulting behind.
- Tell a close friend about what you are planning so that they will know to check on you regularly until this guy gets tired and leaves you alone.
- Fill your calendar with things that you like to do. You will miss him; after all, you have been with him for four years and it wasn’t all miserable. Keep busy until you get used to being single.
- Expect the worst. He might camp outside your house. You might cry yourself to sleep every night for weeks. Or you might second-guess your decision as you have in the past.
It won’t be easy
Break-ups are never easy, even when you are the person ending the relationship.
Be gentle with yourself at this time and hold on to your conviction. This, too, shall pass.
