An open relationship can be fun-if you do right.
Do you want an open relationship? Or are you considering one?
There is nothing wrong with being in an open relationship.
Monogamy has been the go-to relationship style to date. Fortunately, it is not the only relationship style out there. New research has shown that people in poly-amorous or open relationship are just as happy, if not happier that the ones in a monogamous relationship.
What is an Open Relationship?
An open relationship in when people in a monogamous relationship make a consensual decision to explore non-monogamy-simply put, see other people outside the relationship. The reasons for having an open relationship are unlimited.
How to make an open relationship work.
How do you make an open relationship work if you’ve decided on one?
Here are some tips
Set boundaries
Before anything happens, make sure that you’ve set clear and detailed boundaries.
Are you allowed to form romantic attachments to other people or is it just sex?
If you get attached, are you to drop the person immediately?
Will you share your experiences or have a ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ policy?
All of this can be exhausting, but if you want an open relationship to work, it is non-negotiable.
Boundaries may change and shift depending on the comfort levels of both partners. Always be speak up honestly when you need something adjusted.
You must stick to the boundaries-otherwise, it’s cheating
With boundaries comes expectations. You are not allowed to pull shady stuff and label it open relationship. You have to act within the set boundaries and show integrity.
If you break these boundaries that is cheating. Cheating occurs when you’ve broken your partner’s trust. There is a big difference between staying inside the bounds of your open agreement and violating the trust and freedom you’ve been given.
Communicate, communicate, communicate
Relationships are all about communication and open relationship is no different. In an open relationship, you must check in, talk, collaborate and discuss feelings more often than in a monogamous relationship.
If you ever change your mind about anything, share it with your partner immediately.