Being Pregnant can change your relationship with your partner. Some people cope with these changes easily, but some find it harder especially if you are in a dilemma on who the baby daddy might be. Knowing where you can find support can help. Here is one sad case:
Hello .. .please please hide my identity. I have this heavy load I carry all my life and never shared because I don’t trust anyone even my mum. After my dad died, I dropped out of school got pregnant gave birth to a boy and I decided to try marriage but after 3 years in, I called it quits.
I was not happy and my husband was not just the right person so we separated. I decided to venture in the hustling world which wasn’t easy. I tried but poor me I had it rough .. I have been indifferent relationships but they don’t work because of my temper. I am a loving person 😔😔but I get the wrong people. I am an orphan and was raised by a step mum. .so I decided to go stay with her and try out there.
I met a guy ..but I lost interest in him but still communication kept on.. we had sex and all that.. later that month I met this guy so handsome he is exactly what I have ever wanted .humble and all that.. and was ready to settle with him.. but some strange is that am now pregnant and I can’t figure out who is responsible between the two 😞😞😞I am just in a mess or maybe cursed .. I just want to settle and have a family but karma gets appearing 😭😭.
Kenyan girl, there are professionals you can talk to if you are in such a dilemma. They can help you to feel more like yourself again – via counselling but you are on the wrong. Close your legs and stick to one man.