Do different vaginas actually feel that different? Does her/your vagina have a particular sensation completely unique to someone else’s? Could someone be capable of feeling the difference with his/their penis alone? Or are all vaginas generally the same cozy, cushioned, tunnels, indistinct from one another?
It’s something I, you,we’ve pondered. And apparently, I’m not alone in this eternal questioning, as someone’s started a thread all about it on Reddit, titled: ‘Do different vaginas feel different to guys during penetrative sex?’ We took it upon ourselves to ask some people with penises for answers.
Their names have been changed because shockingly few people want to publicly compare people’s vaginas.
Fair enough. First off, what does sex feel like when you have a penis? The general consensus is a warm, wet, cozy grip of the penis. That’s what we’re working with. There are noticeable differences between different vaginas purely in terms of penetrative sensation.
Some feel harder, some wetter, some deeper, some tighter, squishier, more fun, Some just feel better… comfier and easier to work with. Naturally, there are differences tightness, wetness although I suppose the second isn’t necessarily a physical difference in vaginas.
Tightness is something varies between women, but can also change over time or on different occasions. A more relaxed vagina will feel looser, so there’s not one defined grip that one vagina can deliver, although some people will have vaginas that are naturally more narrow or wider set.
Body type does play a role in how the vagina will feel, although it may not be noticeable through penetration.