An erection is not necessary for sex. This may come as news to you if most of what you know about sex you learned from movies and pornography. But it’s true.
If you are one of the many people whose sex lives don’t involve a flesh-and-blood penis, this is not news to you. Millions of people have amazing sex with no penis at all hard, soft, or in between.
But it remains a bit of a head-scratcher for the millions more who either have a penis or like to have sex with someone who has a penis.
This is not surprising when you consider that everything, everywhere and practically everyone – from your doctor to your religious leader to your favorite celebrity talks about sex as if it means intercourse and talks about intercourse as something that requires an erection.
But it’s not true. Sex, even wild, hot, lose-your-mind sex can happen with no penis or a soft penis. If you fit the above category of “likes a penis to be there when I have sex,” then this was meant for you to read on.