Dating in Kenya seems like a very dangerous sport here in Kenya, especially for the young people, sad to say people do too much of what they should not be doing expecting that it is the way of showing love and expecting the same energy from whom they are giving it too. It can be termed as a special kind of entitlement where one falls into a pit of very high expectations.
I believe at the start of every relationship, you should try and find a way to work deal-breakers into the conversation. Of course, it’s not that fun to talk about all of the things you don’t want when you’re trying to dive headfirst into something that feels amazing, but it’s best to get anything that could gum up the works later off your chest immediately.
It can be so tempting to try to be a better, sparkly version of yourself when you first meet someone. But that will never work out in the long run. “Cross-check to make sure you are both looking for the same things.
Be honest it’s totally normal to want to display the best version of ourselves early on in a relationship, but that can also lead to white lies or straight-up lies,” she says. So don’t try to front like you’re down with something if you’re not, or like you’ve got everything together if you’re still working on parts of yourself. “If you do not like him/her, don’t pretend like you do.
This is in the wake of recent killings that have happened in Nyeri where two ladies have lost their loves due to bitterness by their estranged lovers who decided they could not take disappointment kindly and decided to take the two innocent ladies lives. Do not do too much expecting too much after what you have done because the sad thing is no one owes you anything on this world.
