Ladies: Signs that your man is with you for the Wrong Reasons

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Is your man with your for the wrong reasons? Here are some ways to know if he is the best man for you or he is just wasting your time.

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He is selfish in the bedroom-As we all know, intimacy is a two way street, and you should be with someone who cares about fulfilling your wants and needs between the sheets.

If the man you are dating is only concerned about the things that only satisfy him and doesn’t care about whether or not you are happy with his performance, he is totally taking advantage of you. The right guy will cater for your desires, and will take pride in doing so.

He never introduces you to his friends-Here is the bitter truth, if you are dating a guy and you have never met any of his friends and he has never introduced you to his family, he doesn’t take you or the relationship seriously at all.

A man who is serious with you would be proud to show you off, and introduce you to important people in his life, while a user will try his best to keep you a secret.

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He doesn’t talk about commitment-When you are in a relationship, you talk about the future and where your relationship is headed. If the man you are dating tries everything in his power to avoid talking about commitment at all costs, you definitely should take that as being a huge red flag

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It’s normal for some guys to be scared of commitment but it’s never a good sign. If he doesn’t want commitment it’s because he is using you and actually doesn’t see anything long-term with you.

He doesn’t care how you feel-When a man constantly lets you down, disappoints you, or leaves you angry, that’s pretty bad in itself. A selfish man will always look out for himself over anyone else. If he totally disregards your feelings he is not the right guy for you. His lack of compassion for you is a sign that you with someone who is only using you.

He is always asking for favors –When in a relationship, it is important to do things for each other, be there for each other when one needs the other most.

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If you find that a man is constantly asking you to do things for him but never returns the favor, then you are in a one sided relationship and that’s not okay. A man should go out of his way to make you happy not someone who expects everything from you.

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