There is no hiding the fact that valentino is for the main. And your side dish better know that. But there are stubborn side dishes who will demand what is not even theirs, like spending the valentines day with you. And you shall have to stand your ground. Give your side dish an inch and they will take a mile. But at the same time you have to be humane with your side, I mean they usually hold you down when the main becomes stubborn.
So here is a manual for handling your side chic on valentines.
ONE HOUR
If they are really persistent about spending the day with you, something little is better than nothing. Tell them you can only afford an hour off your busy schedule. And give them a good experience.
15TH IS ALSO A DATE
Valentines is on a Thursday right? How about 15th which will be a Friday? The iron will still be hot. I think you can still make it right by then. Better late than never they say.
LEAVE A VOICE NOTE
Don’t snub them with a text. It is impossible conveying emotions through text. The best strategy here is to send a WhatsApp voice note expressing to them how much you appreciate them even more than DJ Khaled. And don’t forget to mention you will make it up to them later. Please keep your word.
Note: Don’t over-explain yourself on why you can’t hangout with them. It is not attractive
MUTE
This is the last strategy if nothing else is conducive. Silence is worth more than a thousand words they say. Ignore.