There is always this excitement that comes with starting a new relationship; you just start believing again but when your new relationship is all you have time for then it’s high time you took things on slow since you are moving too fast in your relationship. It’s almost three weeks since you met your partner and you basically spend all your free time together with your partner; there isn’t time for anything else in your life.
Some partners however think that you should accept them as they are and use their lifestyle levels as a basis of love. Is that fair to the ladies? Would you do that to your woman?
If she cant accept your marriage proposal when your bedroom is like this, dont let her come near you when you are living like that pic.twitter.com/k1bzHSLc3r
— KHAL BUSSIE (@iam_bussie) August 19, 2019
Do you think ladies should be rsponsible to show their love and loyalty by helping her man build himself up?
Below were a few online reactions.
A person who lives like this probably shouldn’t even be dating; they have a lot they need to sort out first
— Fikile Nogumla (@fikzo1126) August 20, 2019
I find it fascinating that men r so inefficient in life but deserve to b loved. When I moved out of home at 22 I had a bed, fridge, pots, microwave TV dvd player stove etc. When I got my flat it was a home. But men will 35 inviting u to sleep on a single bed or sponge
— Oluwagugu Ashefon (@guguluv) August 20, 2019
Because you guys want independent women who have their own shit but cry foul when you’re expected to be independent men who’ve done the same? The jig is up, do your own work and stop trying to burden someone’s daughter.
— Pali🌷 (@Pali_Dwabz) August 20, 2019
Tell me why women are supposed to be independent by themselves x with their own efforts but women are also supposed to be there to help a man build? Why can’t he build on his own the way we’re expected to? Nah, please pause
— Pali🌷 (@Pali_Dwabz) August 20, 2019
A lot of men need to understand that marriage alone isn’t the goal anymore. No one wants to marry into or stay in poverty. I understand the sentiment of growing together but what if that person doesn’t realize their dreams? Then its the sponge forever? No thank you.
— Pali🌷 (@Pali_Dwabz) August 20, 2019
What business do you have getting married if you don’t even have a bed? Isn’t another mouth to feed gonna be a burden? I’m also not coming, a zero for me😂
— Bonolo (@BonoloMoo) August 20, 2019