Even though there are some obvious signs during intercourse that a dude is about to blow his load increased thrust speed, labored breathing, that thing where they put the entire weight of their body on your body it seems like men everywhere usually announce the event verbally, too. “I’m gonna come!” all members of the male species utter just before ejaculating.
But what purpose does this curious habit serve? Is it necessary? Does it benefit the greater good? Do women do it, too?
We aren’t the first people to wonder why this is a thing and why it’s such a pervasive thing. Urban Dictionary defines the phrase “I’m gonna come!” as one “used during the act of sex or masturbation, usually exclusively used by men.
Women wonder why all the men they have slept with and why all the male porn stars they have watched announce they’re going to ejaculate. A bodybuilding forum polled its members about when is the best time to announce you’re about to cum, and 47 percent said when I can feel it building up.