According to a 2015 study, one in five people are interested in having a threesome, and more men than women have had them.
Although threesomes are associated with controversy and awkwardness, it has always been one of the greatest sexual fantasies. If you have not experienced it yet, then you have obviously been curious about it at some point.
Some even have a preference on who to do it with. There is always an option on whether to choose to do it with people you do not know or people that you already have chemistry with.
Those who are single try out threesome’s out of curiosity while couples bring a third party to spice things up in their bedroom affair.
Here are some of the things you should know before indulging in a threesome.
Consent is important
Sex is more enjoyable when you are all in sync. All parties should be excited about this experience for it to be worthwhile.
Discuss the do’s and don’ts before indulging
To avoid awkwardness, the parties should make it clear on what excites them in bed and what turns them off.
Never shy off from talking about safe sex
You should all agree on what method you prefer. Putting yourself at risk of contracting STDs or unplanned pregnancy for the sake of pleasure is not worth it.
Have a safe word in case you get uncomfortable
If the people you are having a threesome with are complete strangers it might be wise to agree on a word you will use to signal them if you are getting uneasy.
Jealousy is a natural emotion you should not try to avoid it.
Couples are expected to feel jealous especially if they see that their partner is enjoying the moment. However, it is important to reassure your partner and you can do this by whispering sweet words while in the moment.