Reasons Why It’s Hard to Get Over That First Love

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First loves are rarely forgotten because they are our first, when we were with them we thought that we are unbreakable.
They are also responsible for our first heartbreak and most of the time, we don’t get over it.

Here are some of the reasons many people are still holding on to their first love no matter how painful the break up was.

You miss the way they made you feel

Often it’s not actually your ex that you miss, but the feelings you experienced when you were with them. You miss the connection, the intimacy and the feeling of being desired.

You gave up your personal life for them

Being in a relationship can often quickly go from being a part of your life to being your entire life.

The relationship feels like everything in your life is about them and if you break up, you feel empty, like a piece of you is missing. You don’t have those other pieces of your life to fall back on anymore.

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You took the breakup too personally

Rejection from someone you love hurts a lot to the extent of making one feel like they are somehow not good enough.

Sometimes two people just aren’t the right fit  and taking the break up too personal will make it hard for you to move on.

 You don’t think you’ll ever find anyone as good

This is the biggest myth of all and the reason most people find it so hard to get over their first love.

You convince yourself that no other guy could possibly have the same qualities as him and therefore you can either try to get him back or settle for someone else who will never measure up.

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