Dating is not the easiest of things, it is a jungle out there filled with all sorts of men.
So, don’t be hard on yourself if you have made some of these dating mistakes that have made you look a little or very desperate. We live and we learn.
Check them out:
1.Funding someone’s lifestyle
While it’s good to help out your boyfriend once in a while and when he is going through a rough patch, you shouldn’t fund his whole lifestyle unless you had agreed in the beginning that you are his sugar mummy.
2.Being a ‘clande’ for someone you would rather date
If you like someone a lot and want them to be your boyfriend but they are not the same page but are open to some sex, don’t settle to be his ‘clande’. This is because you will be left yearning for something that will most likely never materialize.
Also, don’t have sex with someone or give them fellatio in a bid to have them like you.
3.Paying your dowry
Just don’t.
4.Blowing up someone’s phone when you are ignored
If someone ignores your calls or your texts, keep up the same energy and ignore them too. Blowing up their phone will make you look super-desperate and creepy & will leave you feeling sh**y.
5. Dropping your entire life for a guy.
We all know a person who pulls a disappearing act whenever they meet a guy and you will only get to see them after it is all over. Others push their dreams and aspirations aside to focus on building their boyfriend. One shouldn’t trade their life for a relationship, you can have your cake and eat it too.
In the words of Kevin Hicks a relationship guru, “Add a man to your life but don’t make him your life.”
6.Dating someone who doesn’t want to make an effort
Relationships are a two-way street, you deserve better than crossing oceans for a person who wouldn’t jump a puddle for you. Make sure your efforts are returned.
7.Getting pregnant to keep him
It’s not worth it sis. You will most likely end up dating the kid alone.