Most men fear taking responsibility for their weaknesses especially when they get their lady pregnant, and without knowing it that’s what destroys the relationship. As a man, you should learn to take full responsibility for your own behaviour. Stop blaming her for being the reason why she got pregnant rather than blaming her and everyone else, stand up and take control.
Learn to be the man and take responsibility. Don’t blame her for getting pregnant, that’s childish and not being a man. You shouldn’t be having sex if you think you are not ready to be a father. You need to take ownership of your actions.
One of the things that would give me HBP at this stage in life after loss of income is getting someone pregnant, like dude, sasa ni kuhama to a bigger house, relatives waanze trips sijui kwa kina nani, hiring househelp, korogoco nyingi mani ata huwezi pumua.
— Kikuyu Pipes (@DrKanyuira) August 30, 2019
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You haven’t seen the price of diapers or how much those little humans poop. Relatives come once a week. The pooping is daily.
— Azula ⚡🌈 (@jciku) August 30, 2019
Huggies ni 1750 ile kubwa 64pieces. Mtoi ata poop 8-12times. 5packs per month. 8750 per month. Unaweza chapa jackpot upate twins. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
— T’Chaloh Wammz (@wambua1) August 31, 2019
True but there are many other options that are equally useful. It’s a stage in everyone’s life and the last thing one wants is to start a family without planning for it.
I am a husband and a parent and I have no regrets. Yes, extended family is there to stay, so you adapt
— Emmanuel Maingi, AMInstLM (@Kaizasouze) August 31, 2019
But at the end of it all, God provides. I dont know how, but things fall into place
— joseph kamau (@josephkamau_) August 31, 2019