Sometimes we desire to attract people with good intentions in life, just like ourselves. Most times than not when we want to attract people who have good intentions like us, we attract toxic people and it isn’t something that you do intentionally, it just happens.
You could have strengths that can end up being your weaknesses, and that’s a summary of why you keep having toxic people in your life, rather than people who have the same strengths that you have.
In as much as it’s good to see the positive things in people, it’s also important to recognise the wrong things about you as well. It is not always about the others, you could be the toxic one and it is important to be wary of it. Sometimes it’s good to call a spade a spade and understand who you truly are.
When you treat everyone like they are trustworthy, you invite toxicity to your life for free. Lower your ego and understand you mess up sometimes. Perhaps the clearest sign that you are toxic is the way other people avoid coming into contact with you. Do your friends always seem to have other plans or make excuses for why they can’t meet up with you?
Do they never initiate contact with you?
Stop leaving out the part of the story where you fucked up.
— ً (@pixeIise) August 4, 2019
Below is were some reactions.
A lot of people don’t intentionally leave their part of the fuck up out of the story, because usually a lot of people don’t actually realise the wrong they were doing at all.. It’s sad.
— Scorpio 🦂 (@IAmKostaEllis) August 5, 2019
Loll, sometimes people avoid this responsibility cause of ego and walk of shame forgetting it’s called maturity.
— Global Citizen (@emmytohnice) August 5, 2019
Nobody wants to be a villain in their own story
— A.C.E (@CharmingAda) August 4, 2019
I always admit my wrongs for this very reason. When I ask for advice I want whoever I’m asking to know both sides of the story so they can give me real, unbiased advice.
— Queen Seph (@MissBeauty718) August 5, 2019
But my whole argument is based on how you fucked up so that would just mess up the story line
— 𝕆𝕫𝕫𝕪.𝕃𝕖𝕖 (@OzzyLee9) August 5, 2019