Most men don’t really enjoy the thought of raising another man’s child mostly because that’s a biological disadvantage according to their point of view. Raising another man’s child causes them to think less of themselves. The decision to be a stepdad, may not be a walkover for some men as they ponder on how they will be able to exert their authority and responsibility on their stepchildren.
When it comes to raising another man’s child, the decision may not be a walkover for some men as they ponder on how they will be able to exert their authority and responsibility on their stepchildren. Men act as father figures and go into the family as leaders unlike the mothers who it is in their DNA to nurture and mother.
If you consider a child was born out of wedlock, so the father was coerced into raising someone else’s child, you can clearly see that such father would resent being blindfolded and cheated upon. Coming closer home, most Kenyan men have taken up the duty and raised children that did not belong to them biologically. It would be wrong to judge the reasons the man are not raising them but the truth is these things are happening.
But most men are just bringing up other men’s kids. Unacheza na kucheka na mtoto saa hio mama yake anakuangalia akikuona vile wewe ni pumbavu 😭😭.
Some women are trash.— Kelvin 🥇 🏉 (@Opesh_) August 1, 2019
Below were some reactions.
BTW, mbona madem wasikae tu mababy daddy zao. Unapumbaza kijana wa wenyewe kwa issue hana idea hata kidogo. Madem ka hao ndo kina Eve
— Apollo Apollo 🇰🇪 (@ellie_apollo) August 1, 2019
Unapeleka wapi mtoto wa wenyewe… you never going anywhere with that kid alone
— klasi 1 dropu out (@kennykinya) August 1, 2019
Would you agree to raise a child that you were not sure if they belong to you?
Me nikiambiwa ball ni yangu ata sitabishana,izo nine months nasaka ganji ya DNA akitoka ivi nachukua hair,mucus samples napeleka kiusniper…siezi bahatisha
— Levi.X (@GucuGuchu) August 2, 2019
Thts true….
Men are never supposed to love that far…
Kidogo tu…
Hiii ujinga ya maua and https://t.co/XmK5Nbafux pizza guys .
Ndio uchezwa
— Kiema (@kisvile) August 1, 2019
According to the ladies, this is a fair game because some men refuse that they fathered their children and later parting ways with their mothers.
But your kids are also being brought up by other men so…
— Wayua Muthama (@Lydzayar) August 1, 2019