Living in the shadows? Kenyan men reveal why they don’t introduce ‘Side-chicks’ to Family

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Marriage as an institution is something partners should not take lightly. We all know men tend to perceive marriage way differently than ladies. Women crave for marriage moments when they indulge in a relationship, and ask for commitment and look forward to a ‘Happily ever after.’

A man wants certain qualities from the woman he wants to spend the rest of his life with, and unless you fall into that frame, you stand no chance with him. We have to accept there are times things get tough and one may fall into the trap of cheating.

Kenyan men have fallen victim of this and their extra-marital affairs only get known when they die. Moments after they are pronounced dead, women come packed with their kids claiming an inheritance.

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Should the ‘other woman’ ever tell the wife that her husband is cheating and possibly has children out there? “Side chicks” have been investigated, discussed and explained in many formats. A woman weighed on on the topic and making that unexpected call to his wife. All women who have been in relationships have either felt, explored, or entertained and seek revenge in one way: and that’s the “phone call” to the wife or girlfriend of the man.

In a recent discussion, upon questioning whether it is necessary for a partner and a mother of your children to meet the extended family? Some women claim they find it so selfish to commit to somebody for so many years just to be hidden. In worst cases, children are involved and women demand to be known.

Upon asking whether being a second wife, a lady should be known, this is what Kenyans had to say:

 

If ladies who are side dishes came out, some men honestly claimed to disown them.

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