It can be something very silly or a habit that has become a part of you. Some habits you might not even realize that you do them but men hate greatly. Many girls and women think that personal appearance is the most important thing that men look for in a woman. Wrong!
It plays part in the decision process because that’s what they first notice about you when you meet. There’s nothing wrong with looking good and having a good appearance but that’s not an important element that men look at. You may never know this but t can actually put them off when they realize your place looking good over other qualities. Below are a few qualities that turn most men off;
‘I am fine’ mistake
Ladies keep doing this and it’s annoying. You are distressed but don’t want to talk about your feelings hoping that your boyfriend will somehow be able to understand how you feel without you telling him. No one can read anyone’s thoughts sis, therefore, if you have something that is bothering you, you should find the right words to express it.
On the other hand, if your feelings are constantly being suppressed, then you will burst with the emotion and start crying uncontrollably when you least need it. It is a natural process since those emotions need to come out somehow sooner or later.
Flirting
How would you feel if your man was flirting with other girls and ignoring you while doing it? Then don’t just flirt with other men when he is there. There’s something called intergrity, even though he is not there, don’t flirt. It could be a man you have liked, just don’t do it.
If you are really addicted to flirting, you could, from time to time, play a flirting game with him. It goes this way; pretend that you and your boyfriend don’t know each other and that you are meeting for the first time over again (during many weeks). It will help the relationship feel fresh.
Being Negative
It is a turn off to most men if you get yourself a lady who keeps being negative and complaining over things. Asa lady takes it upon yourself to share something positive even about yourself. As a lady, you have to learn to create your own happiness because a man should never be the one to bring it to you.
Maybe you haven’t noticed it, but if you keep talking about negative things and ignore the positive ones, you tire other people in a big way. A person who is in a relationship with you if he really cares about you has a natural urge to help you solve your problems and to make you look positive at it.
With much prevailing pessimism and negativity, you make yourself the absolute the worst person to be around. Do you really want this? If not, then start applying optimism as soon as possible.
Being competitive for no reason
You saw this coming, didn’t you? Winning is really cool until you start making silly comparisons. You have to accept we have weaknesses and you cannot have it all. If you wish to be loved by your man then stop making comparisons with other women. If by any chance you view another lady as being worse than you, it might portray you as a selfish and cruel lady. Truthfully that trait is very annoying for any man.
Hating ‘guys night.’
There are many movies on this matter showing how women hate those occasions when their boyfriends and husbands go out to hang out with their friends. Why? Why do you hate it? Man are social beings, and they need to spend time with other males. Imagine that someone tells you that you cannot go out to hang out with your girlfriends! OMG, right? That is a natural thing, and if you nag him about it, he will soon try to find the easiest way out of that unhealthy love relationship.
Being double-faced person
Are you sometimes super nice to your friends in front of them, but talk bad things about them behind their backs? Oh, that is bad since men don’t like it. It creates a thought in men that if you can talk that harshly about your friends, what about him? men generally don’t like double-faced girls.