Scares! Actress Njambi shares her agonizing past

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Domestic violence and abuse can happen to anyone, yet the problem is often overlooked, excused, or denied. Many people who are in an abusive relationship shy away from talking in fear of being judged by society.

Very few will speak up this only after they are finally out of the abusive relationship.

Popular Real Househelps of Kawangware Njeri Gachombo popularly known asΒ  Njambi has for the first time open up on her past abusive relationship.

 

Njambi, who was aΒ  victim of domestic violence took to her Instagram account to share her painful past and how she overcame.

“I was a victim of domestic violence….. Well, maybe I am… Just maybe… Kidogo tu….well, siku hizi I don’t see it as a big deal because I and my set family laugh about it from time to time… Coz there was a time my face was literally dismantled πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚….. I had to write a script and I lied to my set family of how I was about to be robbed,” she narrated.

 

 

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This video reminds me of me and thanks to @xtine229 I would probably be dead…. A friend of mine asked me if am ready to talk about how I was a victim of domestic violence….. Well maybe I am…. Just maybe… Kidogo tu….well, siku hizi I don’t see it as a big deal because me and my set family laugh about it from time to time…. Coz there was a time my face was literally dismantled πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚….. I had to write a script and I lied to my set family of how I was about to be robbed, And the thieves beat me up πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚……. And that wasn’t the first time, I remember he came to set, and he told my set family of how he was so used to beat me Up.. In his words ” aaah,Huyo mi hupiga”…(but that day it was my fault, the black eye, my bruised legs, my swollen face, some broken ribs, those were my fault, I made him angry…i was to blame) …… One day I’ll probably tell you guys why I didn’t leave the first time he laid his hands on me… No, I was not weak….. I was foolishly in love….. Sometimes I really want to talk about what I’ve been through, but definitely there’s someone who has gone through much worse than I have, so I choose to just keep such things to myself… … But then again, I don’t blame him.. It was always my fault…..always, I didn’t know how to shut up….. Everytime he beat me it was my fault……. But hey am happy I felt…. #saynotodomesticviolence

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The TV Queen went ahead to state how her abusive husband would brag of beating her to her family.

” I remember he came to set, and he told my set family of how he was so used to beat me Up… In his words ” aaah, Huyo mi hupiga”…(but that day it was my fault, the black eye, my bruised legs, my swollen face, some broken ribs, those were my fault, I made him angry… I was to blame) ” she explained.

 

 

“One day I’ll probably tell you guys why I didn’t leave the first time he laid his hands on me… No, I was not weak….. I was foolishly in love….. Sometimes I really want to talk about what I’ve been through, but definitely, there’s someone who has gone through much worse than I have, so I choose to just keep such things to myself… … But then again, I don’t blame him… It was always my fault…..always, I didn’t know how to shut up….. Every time he beat me it was my fault……. But hey am happy I felt…. #saynotodomesticviolence

 

 

 

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