Are you a believer that there’s no manual to living life and doing things? Just think about it. For Example showing love to our loved ones, be it a relative or someone special. I don’t think we can all love the same way. You see finding someone to love is one thing, finding someone to spend forever with is on a whole different level.
One of the most important decisions a man would ever make is that of a life-long partner which is why there are certain vital qualities a man wants to know you possess before he commits to forever with you. Although, not all men have the same expectations because different strokes for different folks but they sure have common things they look out for in the potential wife.
Whether we notice it or not they just calmly observe our actions trying to see if we fit into that perfect picture they have for “the one”. So how many yards of wife material do you currently have? Below are ways you can cultivate for you to be a complete ‘Potential’ lady for him;
Love him
To love someone is to accept them for who they are, without trying to change them to fit our imaginations. A man wants to know that you like him just the way he is and you don’t have any unrealistic expectations. Be patient with him, be understanding, be kind and above all respect him.
Show Him That He is Needed
A man wants to know that you actually need him in your life, that you value his presence and his time with you. It’s easy to get caught up with our personal lives especially as career or business women but a man wants to see how willing you are to make sacrifices to nurture and grow your relationship together.
Be There for Him when the going gets tough
One of the things we as humans desire is having people who would stand by us regardless of the ugly situation life dishes us. A man wants to know that on days when his life sucks, you would be there by his side to encourage him and cheer him on. That you will stick with him and not criticize him for his failures.
Be Kind
A man likes a woman who is kind, polite and treats others with courtesy. So it’s important to show him the tender and tolerant part of you when you are out and meet all kinds of dramatic and annoying people. Show him that you can keep your cool and be nice regardless of the bad energy someone else is dishing out on a beautiful afternoon or evening date.
Forgive Completely
As women, it’s really easy to keep a record of offences and hold some kind of resentment in our minds but men really like it when we forgive completely. They want to know that we truly accept their apology. That we are willing to move past the offences, that we won’t be mentioning it over and over again.
Spend Time Together
It’s really not about the amount of time you spend together but the quality of the time. So it’s important to plan dates, vacations and road trips from time to time. Make memories together and get to know each other more and more. A man loves to share special moments in his life and create memories with the woman he loves. Making yourself available, planning and capturing these things together is also a sign that you truly love him and that you want to be with him forever.