Sex is not just about the man alone; women too have sexual needs. Failing to acknowledge this has led to many women feeling sexually starved and frustrated. What do you do as a wife when your husband doesn’t last an erection, doesn’t make to love to you to your satisfaction, thinks only about his sexual needs or doesn’t make love to you as often?
PRAISE HIS PENIS
A man is most vulnerable when he lets you have his penis. When you make him feel good about it, he will sexually approach you with confidence. It is an ego thing.
DON’T CHEAT
Do not break your marriage just because you are looking for an orgasm. Another man’s penis cannot compare to the full package of your husband.
MASTER HIS PENIS AND BODY
Different men have different sensation points. Study his body to make his arousal maximum so that he uses it to give you pleasure.
BUILD FRIENDSHIP AND NON-SEXUAL INTIMACY
Love making is easier, sweeter and more intense when you two have a strong emotional connection. Don’t be strangers who only come together for sex.
SPEND MORE TIME TOGETHER
The more quality time, the more sex.
FLIRT WITH HIM OVER THE PHONE
When you randomly flirt with each other, you heighten your sexual compatibility.
CHECK IF HE HAS A HISTORY OF MASTURBATION
A man who has engaged in alot of porn and or masturbation might struggle to hold an erection or, his mind might register pleasure as that got using his hand, not a vagina. Tell him “Honey, you have me, keep your hand away from the penis that I am to satisfy.”
HAVE THE SEX TALK
Be safe and free with each other to talk about anything sexual.
AVOID MASTURBATION
Masturbation will take your concentration away from your husband making you need him less.
ATTEND TO HIS SEXUAL FANTASIES
When you cater to him, he will be more responsive to cater to you. Don’t be that woman who just lies naked in bed wanting to be done.
REVEAL TO HIM THE SECRETS OF YOUR BODY
You are the one who knows how you like pleasure served. Tell him how to please you.
KNOW THAT SOME WOMEN TAKE LONG TO GET TO THE O ZONE
Know your body. Some women take long to get wet or even get to an orgasm. If you are that kind of a woman, make him feel good and compliment what he does to and in your body to encourage him. Unhappy couple not talking after argument on bed at home in bedroom.
DON’T ENTERTAIN OTHER MEN
Once your husband perceives or knows you are giving attention to other men or another man, he will be less interested to make love to you.
AVOID STRESSING HIM
Sex starts in the mind. When you give your husband no peace, constantly complain and give him pressure, his penis will find it difficult to get hard for you or even want you.
SEDUCE HIM
Be sexually assertive. Don’t just wait for him to make a move, he is there to satisfy you. When you’re in the mood, let him know he is needed for service.