Renown video director, J Blessing, is well known for keeping his personal life private. He has been severally rumored to be Avril’s baby daddy, allegations which he is yet to confirm. He took to social media to cry out his feelings about love and heartbreaks.
Through his Instagram account, he said; “It hurts to love someone & not be loved in return. But what is more painful is to love someone & never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.
Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right ones so that when we finally meet the right person we will know how to be grateful for that gift.
Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion & the romance in a relationship and find out you still care for that person. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you and later to find out, in the end, it was never meant to be & you just have to let go.
When the door of happiness closes, another opens but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don’t see the one that has been opened for us.
The best kind of friend is the kind you can just be with, never say a word & then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you’ve ever had.
It is true that we don’t know what we’ve got until we lose it but it’s also true that we don’t know what we’ve been missing until it arrives. Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they will love you back.
Don’t expect love in return, just wait for it to grow in their heart, but if it doesn’t, be content it grew in yours. There are things you would love to hear that you would never hear from the person whom you would like to hear them from.
But don’t be so deaf as not to hear it from the one who says it from their heart. Never say goodbye if you still want to try, never give up if you still feel you can go on, never say you don’t love a person anymore if you can’t let go.
Love comes to those who still hope although they have been disappointed, to those who still believe although they have been betrayed, to those who still need to love although they have been hurt before & to those who have the courage & faith to build trust again.
It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget about someone. Don’t go for looks, they can deceive, don’t go for wealth, even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile…because it takes only smile to make a dark day seem bright.”
J Blessing was once dating renown actress, Chantelle but they parted ways. Explaining why they broke up, Chantelle said; “J Blessing would be in and out of the country like every time because of studies and work and that means for the most time, our relationship was a like a long-distance relationship.
At the same time, we had differences and we would be on-and-off. The truth is that from the start, we never really jelled together as we are two different people who were trying to hold on hoping that at some point this would work…
This is something both our families do know as we had discussions over the issue and they even advised that we can let each be if we felt uncomfortable being together. His father is a pastor and he would always advise us from a sober Biblical view. Both sides were for us breaking up.”