First dates are always nerve wretching, more to ladies than men. We love to over think things what to wear, how to speak, what to ask if the two of you will click, is it a scam? Our mind goes on a rollercoaster of emotions.
The real thing is you must focus on yourself, how to bring out your real self and how to impress your potential beau. Whether you’re a guy or a girl, your first date does cause you a lot of anxiety and nervousness, so we all need some small pieces of advice on the way to have a great first date and avoid any unwanted moments of awkwardness as much as possible.
Here’s what you can do
1.Your outfit choice
Before heading out to your first date, we all have to admit that we think A LOT about what we’re going to wear. What I suggest is going for something you’re comfortable in, so you don’t find yourself distracted and fidgeting all night. Also go for chic, bright or light colours so there’s positive open energy around.
2. Personal Hygiene is the secret code
Personal hygiene is crucial when it comes to a romantic setting. Scent is among the sexiest and most inviting things you can easily have. Scent is also a huge memory trigger, so if the relationship progresses forward, he/she might have your scent be a nostalgic romantic memory trigger. Also, don’t forget deodorant! Another important factor is also brushing your teeth with a good long-lasting toothpaste like Close Up, to ensure that your breath smells nice and fresh, not unpleasant during your conversations. Also, for both men and women, make sure you clean your nails really well because it also represents a lot about hygiene and taking care of yourself.
- Stay away from your phone
Once you’ve gotten through the previous steps, it’s now time for heading out to your date. Now let’s talk about the date itself. You want the date to be really special and you want both of you to stay away from distractions. So try, no matter how nervous you are or how awkward it gets, try to resist looking through your phone. It will only add to awkwardness instead of taking away from it. You can even put your phone on silent to avoid distractions and give the person your full attention.
- Some jokes never get old
There is nothing better than sharing moments of laughter. It breaks the ice and defeats awkwardness, making the conversations light and fun. Tell him/her a funny, relatable story, don’t shy away from your sense of humour. Make jokes and let your personality and quirkiness shine.
- Try to stay positive
There’s nothing wrong with opening up to the person you’re interested in and sharing deep, meaningful things with them. However, try to keep the conversation, light and positive, so the memory can be associated with happy, positive and inspiring feelings and thoughts.
6 Avoid too many questions
Try to avoid making the other person feel like they’re in an interview. Asking them about their life and getting to know them is important, but bombarding them with difficult questions is just a call for uneasiness and awkwardness. Try to keep things simple and easy going to make your crush feels comfortable with you and relaxed.
- Eye contact
The most important thing is looking at them in the eyes. It’s one of the most powerful forms of communication and intimacy. Your eyes can easily tell the person what you’re feeling and can develop and intensify the connection and chemistry you two have.