All relationships go through a rough patch but you should not be alarmed if you are going through the same. Lying is very common with spouses but there are certain things you should never lie about.
1.Money matters
Being honest about financial issues is key in every relationship. Lying about your salary and financial status can kill the trust in the relationship. It is better to come clean to your partner so you can plan for a better future.
2. Having kids
Not everyone in a relationship wants to have kids. This can be a major hindrance to the progress of the relationship if no one is honest about it. If you know your partner wants kids and you do not, it is better to communicate so as to address the issue.
3. Infidelity
The hardest thing in a relationship is admitting you cheated on your spouse. As hard as it might be, your partner will appreciate the honesty that comes with it even if it means splitting up.
4. Not being honest about your feelings
Sometimes we all don’t fall in love immediately. Lying to your partner that you are in love with them just because they said it, is wrong because emotionally this can destroy a person.
5. Having feelings for your ex
If moving on from your ex has become a challenge, it would be best to end the current relationship. There is no need to string someone along and pretend to have feelings for them.
It can be difficult to recover when you find out your boyfriend has been lying to you. In fact, many relationships suffer from white lies or exaggerated truths early, when both people are trying to impress each other.
But if your boyfriend/girlfriend is lying to you a consistent basis, you should identify when he is lying, think about why he may be lying, and respond to his lies in a clear and honest way.