Hands-up if this has been happening to you lately. Every time you log into one of your social media accounts, one of your high-school or campus friends have tied the knot.
Admit it! It’s an absolute irritation to find the guy who never got a girl in life is all smiling with his sisters-in-law. You feel like breaking the laptop screen and shouting out, ‘You loser!’
Because you’re currently with a man who doesn’t seem a smidge interested in marriage.
As a matter of fact, the most ideal age for a man to marry is 29 years. And coming from a man’s perspective, here are some ideal reasons why!
Tasting the Buffet
By the time you reach the age of 29, you have eaten a 3-course meal of promiscuity and monogamy. You have dated a lot and by now you know what you like and dislike in your partner.
This gives you the ability to make a good choice and make sure your relationship doesn’t get sour.
Getting an ideal house
Most men start getting a job by the time they reach 24 or 25 years of age.
So going by the equation, by 29 men at least own a home of their own or earn well to afford a good home.
And also by this time, one knows what he wants to do in life and where to get settled.
Career
The first five years of any career need some serious head-down focus.
The addition of another person, sharing your life, will inevitably detract from that tunnel-visioned ambition.
After 29, you’re more likely to have a solid grip of your expertise and succeed in a bifocal approach to life.
You never want to be the guy who has to admit your career killed your relationship.
Know Yourself Better
After you join your job, you start understanding your passion and perseverance. You can be a better judge of everyday situations when you pass 28.
Going by passion, people get married in their early 20s, only to realise it’s not working out after 30s.
Widening the Age Gap
As women on average marry at a younger age than men, which means blessed age gaps.
The larger age gap means you are less likely to have a mid-life crisis at 60, buy a Bentley and trade wifey in for a younger model.
So by staving off marriage, you’re saving yourself from divorce. It’s really very clever.
A lot of S3xual Energy
Men worry that s3x dwindles immediately after tying the knot. But if you’re marrying a sweetheart of a similar age, shortly after 29, your nuptials will coincide with her s3xual peak, ensuring a deliciously bed-bound honeymoon.
Worrying About Starting A Family
Once the ring is on the finger you have no defense when families start interrogating you about when you’re planning on having kids. Because, quite simply, it’s the Next Step.
Daniel, 29 and father of two said, “We got married at 26 and two years later buckled. I obviously love them and don’t regret having them but I could have done with a few… a lot.. more years of not worrying about nappies.”
Most men want to be sure that they are ready to have kids. And they do so about the age of 29 years!