They say it’s a modern thing, that’s just how the world is today but truth be told even in your conscience that kind of setting is not adding up because you will end up playing wifey yet in his mind you are just a bridge.
I’ve heard that in Nairobi life is tough you must get someone you can help each other pay the bills, but are those bills really worth the sacrifices? there is always a way out, you know?
Here are the 3 reason why you may regret moving in with your boyfriend:
1. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free!
Listen if getting married is in your future and you live with your boyfriend he will see no urgency to put a ring on your finger because he’s already getting what he would have gotten after marrying you. To be honest, I would understand his train of thinking because truly, why spend money on a wedding to end up living with a wife that is already his living girlfriend.
2. How will you know his truly committed to being with you forever!
If you want to go up in levels in a relationship, a man proposing to you is an ultimate commitment and he chose you amongst so many other women, to be his wife and potential mother of his kids. He will do this faster, I believe when he is not living with you.
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3. What is the hurry for?
Leaving alone is great because you get to know you, and just give you time to grow on your own and develop as a person. If you are meant for each other you have forever together so don’t rush the process, get to know each other build your relationship and keep the mystery. You will be married for 40 years plus so no need to hurry!