Here’s the REAL Reason why women NEVER say what’s wrong

It’s true when men say women are complicated because the truth is we are. We are designed to understand ourselves and in as much as you want your man to get you, he won’t get you the way you get you. And so, ladies, if you’re having trouble with your man especially when he insists that, something is wrong, then you need to share this with him. You’ll both thank me later.

1. She’s been conditioned to believe she’s overreacting

Like what the F is it with guys and labelling women just because of speaking their minds anyway? Like when you tell your man he’s doing something a bit too much, he’ll say you’re too clingy, or when you just ask him about his friends, he’ll say you’re insecure. Like what happened to just being curious? And then, he is the same person who will come and ask you why you’re acting that way. LIke how tf am I acting boo? I am fine. Ladies, you feel me?

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2. She hasn’t worked it out yet

Like, take a chill pill Mr Boyfriend. Quit asking your girl what’s wrong all the damn time. Truth be told is, sometimes your girl can be in a mood and she still hasn’t figured it out yet. And if she has, she wants to make sure she brings up problems in a healthy, constructive way that doesn’t seem like she’s throwing the kitchen sink at you. So stop nagging her with them “what’s wrong” questions.

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3. She just doesn’t have the energy

Women hate repeating the same thing time and time again. Why do men think you blow up all of a sudden? Well, it’s because you keep doing the same shit. A big part of being in a mature relationship is learning that, yes, you need to bring up problems when they arise. But you also learn that some problems just go away on their own. So when a woman says she’s fine, she might just be hoping this is one of those problems that solve themselves. So, no pressure

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4. She’s already addressed the problem with you

Maybe she’s asked you to stop coming home late, or to take out the trash or to get her something (I don’t know what yall do with your man) but you get the point yeah? At some point, reiterating how she feels about these things isn’t just frustrating, it’s a total waste of time. At this point, she gives up on you, does the things herself, and moves on.

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5. Men are terrible listeners

True! You can talk and rant and vent to your man, and all he responds with is some mumbled words. Most of the time that is. So, she’d rather deal with her issues on her own.

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6. Nothing is wrong

We’d be rich by now if everytime our boyfriend’s asked us if everything was okay when in reality you are doing fine. Like, nothing is wrong and you’re just chilled. But you know men, they still insist on poking the bear, only to give it a reason to attack.

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So, my fellow ladies, this ends now. When your man keeps asking if you’re okay, coming up with his own conclusions and all, please just slap him with this article. You will thank me later. I promise

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