I have been with my fair share of “attached” women before – that’s girls with boyfriends and girls with husbands.
As I’ve mentioned before, the way I see it, there’s always some guy who’s going to be angry you’re sleeping with a girl – whether he’s her boyfriend, her ex-boyfriend, her husband, or just some guy who’s already “called dibs” on her and you moved faster, it doesn’t matter – somebody somewhere is upset that you’re with “his” girl.
And if she was really his, there’s not a thing you could’ve done to get her trust me. So you can either spend time worrying if some man you don’t know will have his feelings hurt if you sleep with a woman who wants you, or you can sleep with a woman who wants you and figure that if someone is upset about her for sleeping with someone else, well, that’s between that person and her.
If you’re dating a beautiful girl, men will want her, and men will try to get her. More power to them for trying. And hey, if she does give you the slip for some other cat, you can take that as strong evidence that either you weren’t doing things right with her .
Lately though, I’ve been seeing some pretty lame attempts by men trying to get other people’s girlfriends. And it’s made me realize: most men have no idea what to do when a girl has a boyfriend and they like her.
The most annoying situation you’ll encounter when a girl has a boyfriend is the one where said girl’s not going to do anything at all with you except waste your time, and potentially other things such as, effort, emotions and money if you aren’t careful .